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Showing posts with label snow. Show all posts
Showing posts with label snow. Show all posts

who ever is praying for snow, please stop

its snowing again. Snowy Houseits strange how it has snowed this year.Cold Breath jonah hasn't has a full week of school since before Christmas. last week, he had 4 days before being out again on friday. the way that it gets down to 20-30 degrees with the river and all the waterfalls around here Freezingfreezing up, then the following week it all thaws out from the temps being up in the 40s and 50s-i swear, its almost enough to convince me that HAARP up in alaska really is playing with the weather.
one thing that is making this easier to deal with, is some friends of ours, david and debbie, are staying with us while in between homes. it feels good to have friends like them. i met them while at the flea market i shopped at almost every weekend while i lived in sevierville. whats funny is that i almost didnt stop that day. i had a visit with jonah while he was in residential care at Camelot . i had my wedding dress almost finished and wanted to show it to "coyote", the man that was such a great mentor and help with it. i almost went on home because it was an hours drive one way, so i had been gone ALL day, but at the last minute as i was driving by, i wheeled in. deb and david were there with some of their friends, just seeing what they could find in the line of native american craft supplies, etc.
i think that was what you'd call another "God" thing.
we exchanged stories and phone numbers, and i told her that i'd call when joel and i got moved after our ceremony. after we'd gotten moved in, we went to the powwow in spruce pine, and darned if we didn't see them there with the dance group. anyway, i introduced them to joel, and joel and david hit it off just like debbie and i did. what good friends that the Lord has blessed us with. we have been able to help them with their move, and they have in return, helped us with their company. joel and i really enjoy the dance group, and are learning so much. i get frustrated so easy though, when we have the couples dance. we had hoped to "switch out" partners, but david and debbie weren't able to go last week, so we had to struggle through it. i ended up leaving the floor and sitting down. i am so hard on myself that i got really frustrated. i hope the next meeting goes better.
yesterday, debbie and i went to newland and did a little shopping. nothing big, just dollar store stuff, but we had a girls day out and it was a lot of fun. she is so funny-mom always told me that great minds think alike. we have laughed and laughed.No Schooljoel has had david helping him this week, and im so glad. david is a good friend for joel.today, they handed out some of the cards and flyers that joel put together, and seemed to feel really good about their prospects. debbie and i made reuben sandwiches for supper and the men really smacked their lips! it feels feally good to have people enjoy your cooking.
i'm up by myself now. david and deb went to bed early because he and joel have to get up early and head out. joel laid down on the bed and fell asleep after talking with his mom. i got jonah to bed a few minutes ago. he is out of school again tomorrow. they dismissed at 11:30 today so that wasn't a surprise. just another day that will have to be made up. i just don't think they'll be getting a spring break this year. WhateverRolling EyesIndifferencePouty
  well, i think it bedtime for angelia. good night.

snow, birthdays, and my sister

it has finally stopped snowing up here for a while. thawing out again! Buried In Snowi can say that i have never seen this much snow. i just thought campbell county was bad for calling out whenever they saw the first snowflake...the system up here has learned the hard way, i guess, that when snow is in the forecast, they'd better cancel. i don't believe jonah is going to get a spring break. 
Snowplowthe snow itself doesn't bother me,. what is so upsetting for me is the darn snow-plower that comes through every time it snow. at first, when our landlord told us that he had a guy that would come out a plow, we thought that was wonderful. BUT....i can honestly say, that plowing every time it has snowed has done NOTHING beneficial except scrape almost every bit of the gravel off. now when it thaws out, the driveway is absolutely nothing but a strip of mud and muck. quicksand.....i can't even drive my car up because its so wet that i slide. so...i park it down by the mailbox. other than that, jonah and i have really enjoyed the snow. it is so pretty looking out into the woods, on the tree limbs. i remember mother loved looking out at the snow, expecially if it was a wet snow or icy. i guess that's why i like it so well.

speaking of mother, in a round-a-bout way, i am friends with my sister, julie, on facebook. a week or so ago, she posted a comment that she was missing her mother a little more than usual that day. and wished her mom a happy birthday. i remember her mother, who was my dad's 2nd wife, and i believe the love of his life. sometimes when i would be with my dad on the weekends, he and jane would go out on a date. i remember going to the movies with them once-at a drive-in. i think that it was the one that was on clinton highway, where the super-walmart is now. wow, that's been a long time. i always liked her, and i thought she was so pretty. she had short black hair, and i think it was kind of curly? i'm not to sure about that. when ever she would be ready to walk out the door of her house, she would open up the basement door and call down to her sister, "ruth, i'm gone". i think her sister had red hair. i always loved red hair. still do! 

i think of my mother and i still don't cry. i don't know if julie crys for her mother or not. my mom took aver a year to die. with cancer. at first, it was esophogeal cancer that the doctors thought they got taken care of. she suffered. that's hard to do, watch someone die. mother was alot different than me in the sense that she loved to work outside, and hardly ever sat down if there was ANYTHING that wasn't done. me? now that's a different story. unless i'm at workm it doesn't hinder me a bit to sit down. and you can tell the difference our houses too. and to see her just sit down, knowing why she wasn't up, staying busy, was saddening. she and i both knew. uncle don says that i haven't cried because i grieved her death while i watched her die. i've said before, i watched her melt like a piece of ice in a hot skillet. i knew that she was on her way out, and that she was in an immense amount of pain. i don't know how she did it, because just like she had always done, she never complained. and i know now that she is no longer in pain. i have no doubt about her eternity because of the testimony she had, and the dying grace that God gives His children on their deathbeds. 

julie, on the other hand, lost her mother suddenly and unexpectantly. she was on her way to work, when she  was hit head on by a drunk driver. that's most of the reason why i had a damn drunk driver. people, sit your ass at the house if you're going to drink. and i hate to cuss, but that's just the way i feel. my sister lost her mother because of a damn drunk driver not being able to stay put. julie was on 18, fresh out of high school.  she's gotten married and had 3 boys, buried dad too, all without her mom. she was an adult legally, but had to "grow up" so to speak, without her mommy. there's a difference in that word, mommy. when you don't have yours, you become a child all over again. lost, bewildered, all over again. no matter how old you are, you suddenly have to do it all on your own, you no longer have the safety net of running home, of picking up the phone to call, no more birthdays, Thanksgivings, Christmas', mother's day, not just her's, but yours too. ALL the little things that made the relationship so intimate. jane had a full time job, but also cleaned offices at night a couple days a week and dad told me that she ALWAYS had supper waiting for he and julie if they were out when she went to clean. it was hard, he said, coming home after she died, with the reality slapping him in the face again when the house was empty without the aroma of something jane had waiting for him to eat. the anniversary is hard too. i don't know if she still does or not, but julie used to take that day off because it was so hard on her. that day is almost as significant as all the others, maybe even more so. i think my sister is a strong woman. a wise woman. the kind of wisdom and strength that only comes when you've had what you love the most in the world ripped away. itputs me in mind of someone that has had to go through the grueling routine of physical therapy of learning how to walk again, how to dress yourself, how to tie your shoes again, how to feed yourself, and God forbid, how to clean yourself after toileting. God bless my sister, i love her so much. shes a good somebody.

Your Mother Is Always With You


Your mother is always with you... She's the whisper of the leaves
as you walk down the street.

She's the smell of bleach in
your freshly laundered socks.

She's the cool hand on your
brow when you're not well.

Your mother lives inside
your laughter. She's crystallized
in every tear drop...

She's the place you came from,
your first home.. She's the map you
follow with every step that you take.

She's your first love and your first heart
break....and nothing on earth can separate you.

Not time, Not space...
Not even death....
will ever separate you
from your mother....

You carry her inside of you....
- Sherry Martin
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The Queen's Meme #23 ~ The Blog Blizzard Meme

1. An unexpected blizzard occurs. The power goes out for 10 days. There is no food in the house, no gas in the car, no heat, no TV, no computer, nada! You are snowed in and can't get to the store for supplies. How would you survive? How would you get out of this mess?
wake up and vow to NEVER eat welsh rarebit before bedtime (remember gomer pyle?)

2.
Tell us about your last snowball fight.
it was just a few weeks ago-our first snow here in the high country of nc., my 11 yr old son and i had gone out to sled down our driveway. he thought it would be HILARIOUS to bomb mom in the back of the head while i was trudging back up the hill....i showed him just how funny i thought it was!!!
Click here to watch me move!

3. You have been asked to make a snowman. What is his name? the southern colonel from bugs bunny-his dog BEAUREGARD!

4. I have mountains of snow outside my door. I would like to make snow soup. What is the recipe? snow soup? pffft!! make snow cream instead!!
SNOW CREAM
1 cupmilk or cream
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 scant tsp vanilla
large bowl of fresh clean snow-about 3 qts
Blend milk, sugar and vanilla. Mix in snow to ice cream consistency.
Add Nestle` quik or instant cocoa for chocolate snow cream
5. It is Day 5 of the Big Blog Blizzard. You have been hunkered down for a very long time and in danger of losing your sanity. Your blog neighbors (that would be us) come callin' to see if you're OK. We peek in the window. What do we see? me in the bed asleep
What are you doing in there? screaming at you to WAKE ME UP ALREADY!!

6. Who is the flakiest snowflake in your life?
Past or present. my daughter samantha. my snow angel.

7. You are Snow White. Which dwarf is your favorite and why? happy. 'nuff said!

8. What is the most fun you've ever had inside during a snowstorm? i'd have to say making and drinking hot chocolate with my son

9. What was Jack Frost nipping at? definately my toes-i had on my hiking boots because they are the most tred safe and they definately aren't for keeping your feet warm

10. Due to blobal warming (that's blog + global for all you non-blog speakers) your snowman has prematurely melted. What was his last request? tell the Queen to wake you up before i go-go!!

snow in the high country



how beautiful our area is now with all the snow. we are having our third snow for the season now. last week we had 10 inches-ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS-although we ended up house bound for 4 days. jonah and i had alot of fun sledding down our driveway-i ended up wiping out several times when the disk spun around! my hat came off, i fell backwards-i think i ended up still going down on the sled. i had so much fun-i had forgotten how much fun sledding was-hadn't done it since i was a kid at my grandmothers and papaws house.
it was pretty well melted except for a few spots here and there and the right side of our driveway-AND we have learned that we cannot leave my car on top by the house....when we heard the forecast called for snow again, we have parked it down on the lower part of the driveway, close to the mailbox. but i don't think it will be taken out anytime soon as the road is still snowy.
school has been called off for tomorrow, which is no surprise to us. jonahs teacher told me that if it doesn't get to 21 degrees, the snow melt that the highway dept puts out doesn't melt the ice. my husband is driving the isuzu. im so glad that he had the foresight to get something like that. i was living in sevierville when i bought my car, so i didn't really need something with 4 wheel drive. if i had been in a place like this, i would've been looking for one.
fortunately, we have the supplies that we need. milk, bread, toilet paper. can't do without any of those!

A Merry Christmas Meme-stolen from the gal herself!










A Merry Christmas Meme

  stolen from One Gal's Musing of course.

1. Candy cane or peppermint patties? Peppermint patties.

2. Sugar or gingerbread cookies? sugar cookies, hmmm, hot out of the oven

3. Tinsel or beaded strands? the strands, but not beaded

4. Multi-colored or same-colored lights? on my tree, different colors!! outside both!

5. Flashing or still lights? on the tree in my house, flashing. outside, i like both

6. Wreaths or mistletoe/holly? mistletoe or holly Wreathes with pinecones...so pretty!!

7. Rudolph or Frosty? Rudolph, although i have to admit, i wish it'd snow butthole deep to a giraffe!!

8. Sledding or snowball fights? its been YEARS since ive sledded....but we've moved up close to sugar mountain and beech mountain, and my husband is really looking forward to getting out and sledding!

9. Snow or ice/icicles? BOTH!!! they both are so beautiful on the trees

10. Snow hat or earmuffs? even though my hair is a mess, hats!!

11. Getting or giving? giving-i think that BEING santa is more fun-i really enjoy it

12. Snow days or plow trucks? snow days as long as i have groceries and meds for my son

13. Stockings or presents? presents

14. Cookies & milk or letter to Santa? both-along with carrots and ranch dip for the reindeer. they get hungry too!!

15. Christmas Eve or Christmas Day? Christmas Eve

16. Log Burning Channel or real thing? real thing-love the smell, esp if its cedar

17. Cards or emails? cards

18. Shoveling or cleaning off the car? cleaning off the car, because i don't have the strength to shovel


19. The Inn’s manger or the animals? Manger

20. Mary & Joseph or The Wise Men? wise men still seek Him, so Mary and Joseph




21. Hot cocoa or eggnog? cocoa

22. Jack Frost or Little Drummer Boy? Little Drummer Boy because he is playing for our Savior